According to rogers, people brought up with unconditional positive regard

Such people would actually feel appreciated no matter what they say or do. The unconditional positive regard, mainly used during therapy, is believed by Rogers and other humanist psychologist to best entice the client’s personal growth and therefore produce the best results. This way there is a hope and a huge potential within each client that can bring about positive changes. These huge potentials can be tapped into with the unconditional positive regard.

nigger, that word was originated for white folks   to keep black people under

and when black people use it, they know that's just how they greet each other

and when white folks use it, they know there's a double meaning under

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