What does bitsh mean mommy said not to said it but she dont said wat it mean

This word is seen as a derogatory slur. It's ill advised to use this in social situations.

it can be both; depending on the situation at hand.

explanation:

let's just say i get in to a confrontation with someone, and they say "ur mom", it could be seen as an insult. or depending on the relationship or comfortability with the person it may be seen as a joke. the distinct line is how the chemistry behind the confrontation.

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