Filtration is a process that depends on a gradient.

i disagree that there is little difference between adult female development and adult male development. sociological studies comparing female and male pathways to adulthood, revelead that there are sustancial differences between them. particularly, female and male differ from timing of marriage, when they began to live with children and the likelihood of combining wife/husband and parent roles.

it´s related to his charming character.

beauty is not everything, although we can joke that girls only care about the physical or material aspect, the truth is that a real woman looks at more important things, besides intelligence and personality, there are other attitudes that make irresistible to men who are 'unattractive'.

for example develop your sense of humor.