In the vignette near the beginning of Chapter 10 it appears that Stella Bridgman was helped most in her bereavement by . a. those who told Stella that they knew what she was feeling b. friends who tried not to mention the name of her son who had died c. a church elder who told her that ""God never gives us burdens heavier than we can bear"" d. individuals who urged Stella to ""get over"" her grief e. friends who brought food occasionally and made themselves available to her