If narcissistic is inflated self importance than what is it when you're not inflating your own but it doesn't matter because it's other people that's not as important as they think they are so they should get over themselves

Narcissistic personality disorder — one of several types of personality disorders — is a mental condition in which people have an inflated sense of their own importance, a deep need for excessive attention and admiration, troubled relationships, and a lack of empathy for others.

answer:

forgive and forget

explanation:

let the things you had just sink in and build off of it and make a newer and better relationship like that one special person but dont do it the wrong way. just build lol. it's simple but hard. i promise it's worth it in the end