Death is a dignitary who when he comes announced is to be received with formal manifestations of respect, even by those most familiar with him. in the code of military etiquette silence and fixity are forms of deference. what is the meaning of the word deference as used in the last sentence of paragraph two? a) courteous word or deed of esteem or regard b) willingness to consider the feelings of others c) respectful submission to the wishes of another d) sign of respect or courtesy for another's position