Step o stands for identifying the problem listing choices judging a source reliability devleping a plan of action

you spelled it wrong - it's obesity.   there is a lot of info on this topic on line.   just google some health articles.  

you can show her once, and if she doesn't do it, do what i do: i take away one of her privileges until she learns. it worked for my sister but note every child is different. or you canput her on 'time out' if she doesn't learn.