What is the first step in taking control of your life?
a.
listing your dreams
b.
secluding yourself from others
c.
seeing a counselor
d.
setting goals

I would answer D setting goals 

When you set yourself goals, you teach yourself responsibilities, and when you succeed , you have your own gratification.
If you fail, then you may be see a counselor , but you first have to trust yourself

hope I helped !!