Select three effective methods for a friend who is showing self-harming behavior.

a. avoid judging or criticizing your friend.
b. let your friend know that you care and want to .
c. tell your friend that you will end the friendship unless he or she gets .
d. share the ways you cope with stress and other problems in your life.

Answers:

A. Avoid judging or criticizing your friend 
- you should never do this, but if they are showing self-harming behaviors this is an absolute NO!

B. Let your friend know that you care and want to help
- you should always be there for a friend. It has been proven that most people give signs before harming themselves and they need someone to be there for them.

D. Share the ways you cope with stress and other problems in your life.
- sometimes this does not work. Sometimes they don't want to hear about other peoples problems. But other times they may be willing to take the help from you.

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