Please answer all of this. please

Why is it important to know the difference between stressors we can control and those we can't? a)we can neglect the effects of uncontrollable stressors and focus on the controllable ones. b) it gives us a sense of power to know that we have control over certain stressors. c)it us come up with strategies to reduce the effects of a stressor.

Why is people bullying? what's the target?

Jessica said she would never work for less than $12 an hour, but then she got a job looking after children in the afternoon, and it pays only $6 an hour. now she says that money isn't as important as enjoying her work. this is an example of: apex