Do y’all have any advice?

well, idk. i just feel like he seemed fine without me..like he used to say *** about me being his best friend and all but he doesn’t even seem to care about the argument we had or that we are friends again. it kinda makes me feel like sheet for crying all the time and having mental brakdowns s for all the things i could’ve done to stop him from leaving, i feel like he was fine without me so it doesn’t really matter if we are friends or just really miss the old we were being dumb and talking late at night about the ’ve always tried defending him against people who attacked him and all..i really care for him but i feel like there is no point in being there for him since he has you and kate..it’s like if i just left he wouldn’t care and idk..

Although he might not seem like he cares, some people don't show obvious emotions. Many people hold in their emotions. It seems like you two had a fight, which he might still be numb from it. After a fight or repeated fights, it can leave both parties eventually numb and the feeling of not caring. Even though this might be, it doesn't mean he doesn't care.

On a different note, it's important for you to stand up for yourself. You haven't done anything wrong. If he's acting distant, you can't force him to stop. If he doesn't want to talk to you, don't talk to him. I do understand that it's difficult, but you should only keep positive people in your life. I know you are reminded by how he used to be, but if he really did change, you have to accept it. You can't expect him to change. I recommend taking some time for yourself. Get away from this negativity

Atleast once a week you should go to the grocery store