Which two forces are in opposition in these two excerpts from the poem? ambiguity and clarity the pleasure of disorder and the oppressiveness of order the breaking down of structure and the preservation of structure natural patterns and family patterns

The breaking down  of structure and the preservation of structure

It could be said that the major gets upset because his wife has just died in an unexpected way. the major has received medals for his valor in battle but he never brags about it instead nick does. however, this is not what bothers him but that his young wife has died.