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Mother’s are challenging as they know how our buttons, we want (even if we don’t know we do) their approval and we want them to love us regardless of many obstacles. On many levels we want them to love us enough to care about our needs.

Sounds like you are at boarding school which means there is a physical distance between you and your mother and family. This can double the challenge of speaking to get your needs met.

Without assuming why you want to write rather than speak to your mother, my intuitive suggestions is to think of someone you don’t know at all, or even an inanimate object. My reasoning is that when you remove the emotional and intellectual connection, your true nature can be composed in words on paper.

It’s the implied reactions, emotions and our thoughts of if’s - if I say it this way, she’ll be better at responding, if I…if I….etc. We want to avoid that which will muddy the directness that you want to get across.

Write direct, simple sentences without adjectives. YES without adjectives. The clearer your words are the more you try to illicit a caring response, without any guessing or manipulation added to your words.

I want you to walk with me to the park at 7 pm. Can you join me? Is much better than saying. I want to go to the park today, Will you come with me?

These may sound the same but the more specific you are, the better. Especially with getting your needs met. Be precise. Be warm without giving her any reasons to object or say no or manipulate your words.

If at any time you add in a reason for something like ‘I know you are busy but I’d like to spend more time with you on school breaks’, you give your mother an out or a way to twist your words. She can say, yes she is busy and why she cannot. The opposite is true as well. You may not want your mom there as often, so she can say ‘Oh I’m not that busy, I love to see you on every break’.

Again be direct, honest and in plane language.

Just had another thought that I can share what I teach my clients. After writing the letter, go through some scenarios that could be the result. Positive, negative, emotional etc. This way you are mentally prepared for her reactions, if they don’t go your way. Keeping you in control, more calm, etc.

Good luck!

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economic growth now and in the future requires that fewer jobs are created for human workers. this is the desirable inevitable consequence. the automation of the jobs of human workers is the most profitable economically productive activity on the planet.

so as a global society we need to have a plan to deal with this inevitable change.

automation has been, is and will always be a friend to human society if human society on a global basis is prepared to deal with the inevitable consequences.

what is key is that automation killing all jobs is only a matter of when not if.

the real question is can we get past the now invalid assumption that most humans can work for a decent wage going forward.

i spent my working career increasing automation and increasing efficiency. this consequently reduces the hours worked by humans while increasing the output economic goods and services at an ever decreasing price.

why not have ever cheaper ever more intelligent automated machines create the vast majority of required economic goods and services as opposed to human workers?

why not have most human workers working less and retiring earlier?

there is much more to life than working forever.

fortunately, automation has been going on for decades and will continue as an irreversible process as ever cheaper ever more intelligent automated machines permanently replace more costly human workers.

i write this answer for the people that have an open mind and are not living in the past this is what i feel most effectively deals with the tractable issues that automation creates.

the question at hand is how we deal with automation going forward as a society.

automation is only a threat because society has yet to acknowledge automation is happening let alone effectively a having a plan to address it.

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it is yes as the core issue is an ever increasing majority of human workers   will become permanently unemployed as ever cheaper ever more intelligent automated machines inevitably replace more expensive human workers with each passing year.

economic growth now and in the future requires that fewer jobs are created for human workers. this is the desirable inevitable consequence. the automation of the jobs of human workers is the most profitable economically productive activity on the planet.

so as a global society we need to have a plan to deal with this inevitable change.

automation has been, is and will always be a friend to human society if human society on a global basis is prepared to deal with the inevitable consequences.

what is key is that automation killing all jobs is only a matter of when not if.

the real question is can we get past the now invalid assumption that most humans can work for a decent wage going forward.

i spent my working career increasing automation and increasing efficiency. this consequently reduces the hours worked by humans while increasing the output economic goods and services at an ever decreasing price.

why not have ever cheaper ever more intelligent automated machines create the vast majority of required economic goods and services as opposed to human workers?

why not have most human workers working less and retiring earlier?

there is much more to life than working forever.

fortunately, automation has been going on for decades and will continue as an irreversible process as ever cheaper ever more intelligent automated machines permanently replace more costly human workers.

i write this answer for the people that have an open mind and are not living in the past this is what i feel most effectively deals with the tractable issues that automation creates.

the question at hand is how we deal with automation going forward as a society.

automation is only a threat because society has yet to acknowledge automation is happening let alone effectively a having a plan to address it.

a conservative libertarian free market idea where individuals choose what economic goods and services are produced in the free market as the free market supply will respond to free market demand. this is not a centrally planned communist economy.

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