After her mother tells juliet that she'll be marrying paris on thursday says, "i wonder at this haste. that i must wed/ere that should a husband come to woo". what is she criticizing here?

I would say she is mostly criticizing there judgment and the marriage . 

Allusion and illusion. an allusion is an indirect reference, whereas an illusion is something that is unreal or incorrect. each of the nouns has a related verb form: allude “to refer indirectly to,” and illude (not a very common word), which may mean “to delude or deceive” or “to subject to an illusion.”

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