What does Hemingway's rule of being "undefeated" mean

Hemingway work embodies a code of conduct in which, though his character may be victimized and finally destroyed, he is "undefeated" by refusing to react and confronting his sense of destruction and death with honor. "A man can be destroyed but not defeated" (Santiago in the Old Man and The Sea)

the answer is both an appeal to ethos and logos (if that's what your question options were)

it depends on how u want ur relationship to go, if u want something serious or not.   if u are to go on a first date go to somewhere nice, comfortable, and fun. don't make it so romantic because u can make the other person uncomfortable. don't make moves so fast and keep things chill.never force the other person to do things they don't want to do.

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