Basic Table Manners: A Short Guide Do you want to make a great impression at a meal? Want your dining companions to focus on you instead of your eating habits? Whether you are at a family holiday get-together, trying to impress someone on a first date, or going out with your colleagues for a business lunch, you will feel more comfortable if you have mastered good table manners. When you first sit down, spread your napkin out on your lap. Before you begin to eat, make sure that everyone has been served and that the host is eating, too. If you are in a large group and the host says to start eating, go ahead, as long as you are not the only one to do so. If you need something you cannot reach, such as the water pitcher or butter, ask someone to pass it to you do not reach across anyone else's space. If you are passing a serving dish to someone who requested it do not help yourself first. If those rolls look tasty ask for the basket back afterward. If you change your mind after you have touched the roll, take it anyway. Before you start a conversation, ask yourself if the topic is appropriate to discuss while eating. Try to keep things positive and definitely avoid anything gross! Do not text or talk on your cellphone at the table. If you must take a call, politely excuse yourself Toward the end of the meal compliment the host. If you keep all of these directions in mind, you should make a fine impression in any setting. Happy dining!

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