what does "the lights from the parlor and kitchen shone out, through the blinds and the windows and bars, and high over head and all moving about, there were thousands of millions of billions of stars.

The observer is outside his home observing both the lights inside the house and high above in the night sky. I don't know this poem but I would make a guess that he is reflecting that his house is in some way like one of those shining stars. But unlike the free and moving stars his star is enclosed inside a building with windows and bars.

Explanation:

you can change by someone having a negative opinon of you in many ways for example thi can lead to depression and taking of ones life also known as sucide this effects there self esteem and ego in a negative way making them feel sad depressed and stressed causing them to act gloomy and sad if this continuses this can lead to self harm or much worse things.

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