I read this whole paragraph and still cant choose the theme can someone help me out?

What is the theme of the passage?
A. People can be fooled by appearances
B. Its important to feel proud of your work
C. Kind deed will be repaid with kindness
B. It is wise to ask for help if necessary

My best friend is a white girl named denise — we look at boys together. she sat in front of me all through grade school because of our names: o'connor, ozawa. i know the back of denise's head very well. why does the speaker share details about race, friendship, and names in this stanza? check all the correct answers. to indicate that the students were already segregated and isolated to emphasize the idea that all americans were treated as equals prior to the attack to reveal the extent of the impact resulting from the attack on pearl harbor to identify the compassionate response following the attack on pearl harbor