Which statement best explains how cofer shapes the theme that love does not come easily to everyone in this passage?

she explains that "[h]e was not puerto rican; he was italian and rich."

she explains that she had, "of course, in the great tradition of tragic romance, chosen to love a boy who was totally out of my reach."

she explains that her one goal is "to catch a glimpse of my secret love."

she explains that "[h]e worked at the store near my apartment building on weekends and in the summer."