Thom and angie usually go out to dinner on friday nights to relax after the work week. this past friday night, thom came home from work and told angie to pack a suitcase. angie was not particularly excited about changing their usual friday night routine, but once they were packed, thom drove them to the airport. there he had tickets waiting for a surprise flight to reno, and a rental car reserved so they could drive up the mountain to lake tahoe for the weekend. what dialectical tension is apparent in this scenario?