What are the starting and stopping points of the development of the self during the life course?

Starting Points of the development of the Self.

* When we feel an urge, motivation and desire that we should learn something extraordinary to improve our self.

* When we feel we are lacking something, it could be regarding learning new technology, learning new sports or anything which we feel we are not good at.

* When we see others then instead a jealousy feeling, we find them as a good and better human being than us, then we start idealizing them and followed by learning the same set of skills which we think they possess.

Starting Points of the development of the Self.

* When we start thinking that we know each and everything, that's the point when we stop learning for new skills ans about new things, and ultimately our progress stops there.

* While seeing others, when we feel jealously kind of feelings for them, then instead of admiring their potential we start leg-pulling and other negative techniques, which means we have stopped our own development of the self.

* Instead of taking interests in new skills, knowledge and technology, we start feeling better with the one which we have, not only this, but we also feel that the tings which we possess are the best-est of all, then we stop progressing.